Ah, Galentine’s Day—the glorious, estrogen-fueled holiday that reminds us that, sometimes, the best relationships in life don’t involve romantic partners, but rather the ride-or-die women who’ve kept us sane. 

If you’re over 45, you probably don’t need an excuse to celebrate your lady friends (because, let’s be honest, we’ve all outgrown the drama), but Galentine’s Day is a perfect opportunity to shower your besties with love, laughter, quality time, and maybe a few too many cocktails.

So, grab your reading glasses (or your best pair of bifocals), pour yourself a glass of wine, and let’s talk about how to celebrate Galentine’s Day like the fabulous, fearless woman you are.

What Exactly is Galentine’s Day?

If you’ve somehow missed the memo (or don’t watch Parks and Recreation with Amy Poehler, where this holiday originated), Galentine’s Day is celebrated on February 13th and is all about celebrating female friendships. 

Think of it as an upgraded, sassier version of brunch (or other) with your besties—except there’s an official reason to spoil your squad. Some consider it the best day of the year. 

For women over 45, it’s even more meaningful. By now, we’ve been through decades of friendship trials and triumphs. We’ve seen each other through marriages, divorces, childbirth, empty nests, career changes, hot flashes, and that one regrettable time we tried bangs in our 30s which was extra fun.

These women? They deserve to be celebrated in style.

Why Galentine’s Day Matters Even More at 45+

Let’s be real—our friendships are the backbone of our survival. We’re past the phase where we need validation from a partner to feel complete, and we no longer have time for surface-level relationships. Our friendships are stronger, deeper, and laced with more shared secrets than a teenage girl’s diary.

At this stage of life, we’ve learned:

✔ A good friend is cheaper than therapy (though sometimes, we still need both).

✔ Wine tastes better when consumed with people who won’t judge our pour size.

✔ No one understands our mood swings better than the woman who’s experiencing them, too.

So, whether you’re happily married, single and thriving, or somewhere in between, Galentine’s Day is a must.

How to Celebrate Galentine’s Day Like a Queen

Now, let’s get to the fun part. Here are some fabulous, age-appropriate, yet slightly wild ideas for celebrating Galentine’s Day this year.

Host a Fancy Pants Brunch (Because Mimosas are Life)

What better way to celebrate than eating carbs in your comfiest stretchy pants? Brunch is the OG Galentine’s Day activity for a reason. It combines three of life’s greatest pleasures: food, friends, and daytime drinking.

Make it extra special:

   •   Ditch the boring eggs and toast—go full-on Pinterest with heart-shaped waffles, gourmet avocado toast, or homemade frittatas.

   •   Set a fancy table with candles, flowers, and a playlist that screams “independent woman” (think Beyoncé, Tina Turner, and Lizzo).

   •   Have a mimosa or Bloody Mary bar, complete with fresh fruit, fancy syrups, and just enough alcohol to make you text your ex, but not enough to actually send it.

Rent a Limo & Feel Like Celebrities for the Night (Even if We’re in Bed by 10pm!)

Who says limos are just for prom or bachelorette parties? If anything, we deserve them more now—because we’ve earned it through years of dealing with life’s nonsense. Imagine you and your besties rolling up to your favorite spots, stepping out like A-list celebrities, and making heads turn (or at least making the valet guy do a double take).

Here’s how to do it right:

   •   Pack the essentials: A limo isn’t just a mode of transportation; it’s a mobile party unit. Bring champagne, snacks (because we are grown women who need sustenance), and maybe some ibuprofen for later.

   •   Create the perfect playlist: Whether it’s 90s throwbacks, classic rock, or “diva anthems”, make sure every song makes you want to sing at the top of your lungs. (Yes, we are belting out “I Will Survive.”)

   •   Plan your stops wisely: Hit up a speakeasy, a wine bar, or a dessert café that serves cocktails. Or, skip the stops altogether and just ride around in style, waving at strangers like the queens you are.

Go to a Karaoke Bar & Let the World Hear Your “Talent”

Let’s face it: by this stage in life, we’re past the point of caring what people think. If we want to sing “Respect” by Aretha Franklin like we’re auditioning for a record deal, then we will.

Plan a Girls’ Weekend Getaway (Because We Deserve a Break, Dammit!)

Top Galentine’s Getaway Ideas:

   •   A beach or lake house retreat—because wine tastes better with an ocean view.

   •   A cozy cabin stay—think fireplaces, fuzzy socks, and deep talks over hot toddies.

   •   A Vegas-style adventure—because we may be 45+, but we still know how to party (with a reasonable bedtime).

Host a “Throwback Sleepover” – Because We Are Forever Young

Remember when sleepovers meant gossiping all night, making prank calls, and trying not to wake up your friend’s mom? Well, Galentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to relive those golden years—minus the prank calls (or not, we don’t judge).

Take a Dance Class & Shake What Your Mama Gave You

Nothing bonds a group of women like awkwardly trying to learn choreography together. Whether it’s salsa, belly dancing, pole dancing, or even an old-school hip-hop class, this is your chance to have fun, be silly, and maybe discover a hidden talent.

However You Celebrate, Make it Epic

Ladies, we’ve earned every ounce of fun that comes our way. Whether you’re renting a limo, conquering karaoke, or just laughing over wine and cheese, the most important thing is celebrating the women who’ve been there through it all.

This Galentine’s Day, let’s raise a glass (or a coffee mug, if that’s your vibe) to the unbreakable sisterhood that keeps us laughing, sane, and forever young at heart.

Now tell me—which of these ideas are you doing this year?

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